A Tale Of Happiness
Hello once again,
Today i am going to share a few ideas on happiness.
Every person in this world has seen and will certainly face sadness in life. Life means a simple blend of happiness and sadness.
And the most interesting thing is that this blend differs from person to person. For me happiness can be something whereas the same thing can be sadness for someone else. So the meaning of happiness is not same for all. moreover its extent is not same for all too.
Just imagine, A rich person, living a lavish life, would be probably happy if he becomes more and more rich among those he/she is competing with. While on the other hand a poor person would be happy if he is able to earn enough money to fulfill the requirements of his family. A poor person has a limitation beyond which he can't even imagine. Even a rich person has a limit, but already being a rich person he can imagine beyond his limits and try to extend his limit. A poor person needs to do a lot to extend his limit and to achieve it.
In today's world it is said that money can buy happiness. And trust me, that to some extent this is true. You can do anything if you have money. Money not only can buy expensive stuff for a luxurious life but also it can buy respect. Yes you heard it right respect. Or we can say "fake" respect. I said fake respect because, people caring a lot for rich people, actually do so not because of you, but because of all the money you have. They actually are jealous of you, they just act to be nice but seriously they would leave you alone once you are out of money.
So i concluded that, Money can buy you fake happiness. Fake happiness can give you all that happiness can do, except trust, faithfulness etc..
So, the question is, How to be happy? So according to me, be good to the universe and universe will make you happy. Silly answer? But trust me, this is the best answer we can have.
One cannot be happy for his/her entire life. As i have previously said that life is a blend of happiness and sadness. Moreover this is very logical. For continuous happiness one has to be more happy than the previous level of happiness every time. I can give an example to make you understand.
So the example is-
Say, a student stood 3rd in his class. He would be happy if he stood 2nd next time. He would be happy if he stood 1st next time and not 2nd. If he stood 2nd next time, it would be normal for him. So what next? There is no position after 1st. How can he be happy? But if he stood 2nd next time, he would become sad. right? So he would once again have a chance to be happy by being 1st in the class. So this is life.
So for being happy you need to be happier than the previous moment. And if this continuous, It would probably end at infinity. And scientifically, more the rate of happiness would be, lesser would be the life span. Hence we need to be sad to let universe give us a chance to become happy.
Thus if you want to be happy always, enjoy the happy moments of your life and pretend to be happy when you are sad in front of others to let them be happy. If you are sad then cry aloud to express your sadness but remember that if you are sad, that means you have a golden opportunity to be happy again.
Stay happy and enjoy every moment of your life.
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